Loosing a friend

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Some days ago I received a note from a friend who was
forced to leave DeviantArt and some others sites.
For me it was so sad cause I've learn to know this person,
and believe me she is very kind and a sweet person.
Her "fault" (if so it may be called),
was working with a magazine that deals with
to know new photographers, depicting artistic nudity.

She was only the managing director, so a person who only
express her opinion about which kind of picture to use,
but at least all decision are of the Editor  as well as gains from the sale of copies or subscriptions.

he and his friends have done the life of C. a very hell here and around, try to destroying
her and  treated her with contempt, he threaten her like shit as he also write on his journal
here on DA.

I contact the person who start to STALKing her here and around,
for asking him why he do so.
He reply to me to read his journal, so I do and this is what u can understand
reading it.
He take part to a contest from this mag, after have paid a subscription,
but he have not win. So now, that the mag is closing due to bankruptcy,
he ask to the managing director to compensate him.

So I sent him a note, trying to make him understand something,
that had to be clear also to a child, (but not to him and to him friends),
specially that the managing director, not have the possibility to conpensate none,
(she don't administers the money of the society) and the only way she had to reimburse
him is she give you the money personally (of his own pocket), and this is not the right thing.
I try to explain him that the only one who must to compensate him is  the editor of CL  Magazine.

After these days I see that for him all is come back to  normal, and no matter if a innocent person
have had to abandoned her friends, her life here, no matter if have  stepped on his dignity with outrageous offenses,
no matter if she was not guilty of any sin, no matter if is not the right person, no matter if she suffering for this
situation. He had his victory (a poor victory for me), she have lost all, also the freedom to stay with friends.

Sincerely I don't understand how this kind of person (who have all the right to be compensated of the money spend for the
subscription), can act in this way. First of all, there are place to talk of all of this,
there are lawyers that you can assume and ask them to  recover your money, but DA is not the place to do so.
Is so sad to realize that our life in in the hand of certain people and how we let  them to condition our lives.

DeviantArt should be a place to post photos, to share our art, to our passion for it, and our talent.
A sort of extended family,  where to seek advice or help.
I refuse to believe that this site, is a place where offend, humiliate people, and
where to get summary justice. Why none say nothing of front of these things that have not to happen?

Now was the turn of UL, but tomorrow who will be the next victim
of this kind of person? Who's next in line to fall?

Please defend the RIGHT to stay here, without to be harassed,  in PEACE with friends.
and remind before to let all, to report him to DA Help Desk, cause they can help u to stop him.

:icongimmeheartplz:

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orchid22's avatar
This is so wrong..who is this person. I am not sure who to tell off! I feel so sad when someone is hurt by another person especially in a place where we all learn and grow with the common ground of art. Luckily I have not met this kind of person here only very talented caring ones lie you dear. I have found people reach out here and support each other which I why I love it here. Please someone post a name so we know who this person is that would chase out a good heart. We too have powers here...in hope and reach to get our message across.